Latest comments for http://www.cwluherstory.org , comment 0 to 6 out of 6 comments http://www.cwluherstory.org Thu, 15 May 2008 22:47:27 +0100 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://www.cwluherstory.org/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=300&Itemid=86#pc_6 you have an incredidle idea of a wife though a lot of smart women have these characteristics but at least at the end you have come to your senses that you can only expect something from other person if you yourself have a lot to offer. - maria divina Mon, 21 Apr 2008 20:07:58 +0100 http://www.cwluherstory.org/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=300&Itemid=86#pc_5 Given that he could have been a little more creative, but I think his heart was in the right place. That is within the narrow constructs of a man's existence. As someone else commented the roles imposed by society are as much the fault of the mothers, wives, grandmothers ect. than it is the men in the picture. I have decided to raise my kids on my own and hope it works out when I attempt to break the mold with my own children. - jenni Fri, 14 Mar 2008 07:26:49 +0100 http://www.cwluherstory.org/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=300&Itemid=86#pc_4 I do believe that his heart is in the right place and I do agree that most guys do not really expect all of that from their wives. However, he nor anyone else has really taken the time to examine the fact that men themselves fall victim to the same social constructions as women. Men are trained to think the impossible list is what they want. Men didn't wake up one day and decide to create this insane criteria for a wife, culture has implanted it in both men and women's minds over centuries. As I see it, both men and women seem to willingly agree this garbage is what a wife should be and so both suffer. They suffer most because neither expresses what they really want. They don't actually know what they want, they have let culture tell them. So, how could either men or women be expected to voice any kind of an oppinion. As for me there is no list of things I want from my wife, that's not fair to the biological and psychological process of love which, by the way, was left out of both lists of what a wife/husband does for the other. Which makes sense as to why all the fighting. As long as men and women don't seem to want or expect love from one another it wont matter how progressive our next genereation of parents are nothing will change. - William Wed, 27 Feb 2008 03:24:26 +0100 http://www.cwluherstory.org/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=300&Itemid=86#pc_3 nice work dude. - jose lara Tue, 19 Feb 2008 11:03:39 +0100 http://www.cwluherstory.org/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=300&Itemid=86#pc_2 I don't think this "softens" the blow at all. Most of it is exactly like Brady's essay and I don't think this guy "gets" it. I don't think Ayd is serious when he says that these are things that he should be expected of as well. If that really is the case then he should write an essay on how he WILL do those things DESPITE the fact that the wife STILL does everything while juggling work and her social life. It's 2008. Somebody should write a 21st Century version of "Why I Want a Wife." - Grace Thu, 14 Feb 2008 09:08:41 +0100 http://www.cwluherstory.org/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=300&Itemid=86#pc_1 Would have been more powerful if you had written it as " I want a husband who..." The difference between your wife and Syfers wife isn't much more than a softening of the blow. - Amber Sat, 02 Feb 2008 17:14:41 +0100